Play and Me

aka. what I’m open to and how to approach me

Given most people forget, the most important thing I can say is that I am a Switch. I might not do much play as a bottom in public, but if you’re interested in play with me in either respect then read the below and talk to me.

Bootnote: I am not great at subtle, if I’m not picking up on something, please be as direct as you’re comfortable with.


I personally follow RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and PRICK (Personal Responsibility In Consensual Kink.) Some of the play I do carries an inherent risk, and all parties need to be aware of the risks, and their own responsibilities in and out of a scene.


Hell Yeah!

Aka, some of the things I’ll do in public with some negotiation, depending how well I know you will affect how hard I’m willing to play. (Let me know, I’m as equally happy to play softly, as well as harder)

  • Impact play
  • Rope play
    • Floorwork – Happy to tie most people
    • Suspension – I prefer to only suspend people I know well when it comes to play. If I know you and you want an experience, talk to me and we can discuss.
  • Wax play
  • Fire play
  • Knife/Axe play
  • Sensation play
  • Biting
  • Electricity – TENS Machine, and some other zappy things

Note on Bratting – Fine as long as it’s being cheeky but knowing not to ‘cross the line’. Remember that bratting can make things riskier, so you need to accept/understand that responsibility.

Hell No!

Sexy times – reserved for special people only

  • Needles
  • Blood play (obvious caveat that although I don’t intend to draw blood, there is a risk, especially with knife and axe play.)

Safe words etc

I usually use the traffic lights – Red (stop)/Yellow (check in)/Green (all good.) If you use something else then please let me know.
It’s also helpful to use words/sentences, I’m happy to encourage people describing what’s happening for them and what needs to change (especially useful in rope.)


Let me know what you need for aftercare, I’m happy to provide cuddles and company and will keep in touch over the following days.


Green light Go!

Aka, some of the things I’ll do in public with some negotiation with people I know and trust.

  • Impact play (mainly thuddy)
  • Being bitten (reasonably gently)
  • Rope play
  • Wax play
  • Sensation play
  • Knife play (requires trust in skillz)

If you know me and have an idea you think I’ll enjoy, then please mention it and we can discuss.

Yellow – maybe, sometimes just a bit

  • Scratching (lightly)
  • Electricity

Red! – Hell No!

Sexy times – reserved for special people only

  • Needles
  • Blood play
  • Breaking the skin

Safe words etc

I tend to use Red (stop)/Yellow (check in)/Green (all good.)


I tend to be good at looking after myself in the days following, but cuddles immediately after are always appreciated.